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Abortion: Beyond Black and White
Posted by Dan Joyce on
Abortion is one of the most polarizing issues of our time, often reduced to stark contrasts: pro-life versus pro-choice, right versus wrong, morality versus freedom. But in reality, it’s far from black and white. It’s a deeply complex issue that demands nuanced consideration, not the extreme rhetoric that has come to dominate the conversation. When we polarize the issue, we end up appealing to extremists on both sides, essentially letting the loudest and most radical voices—often lunatics—dictate the discourse. Let me share a personal story that highlights this complexity. Tracy was a girlfriend who struggled with schizophrenia, a condition that...
Anonymous Advice with Doctor Dan
Posted by Dan Joyce on
When it comes to your son, it's essential to recognize that our relationships often involve three fundamental identities: parent, child, and adult. Based on what you've shared, it seems that your son continues to relate to you as a child, while you still assume the role of his parent. However, he's an adult now, and this dynamic isn't serving either of you well. The key is to start treating him as an adult, just as you would with a partner or a peer. By doing so, you encourage him to step into his adult identity. I understand this will be...
Transgender: Why Are We So Confused?
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Okay, let me start by saying this: I’m a Christian. My faith is important to me, but I also question some of the teachings within religion. However, there’s a new wave, a new generation of LGBTQ+ identity that’s left me seriously wondering what’s going on. Back in my day, we had men, women, and gay. It was pretty straightforward. Gay men and women had their own spaces, maybe a secret bar or something like a drag show or The Rocky Horror Picture Show. It wasn’t mainstream, but it wasn’t hard to understand either. But now? Now, things are getting confusing....
Nick's Burgers - Refusing to Serve: A Personal Account
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When I was living in Fullerton, I decided to treat myself to lunch at a local landmark, Nick's Burgers. Known for its delicious burgers at prices that beat DoorDash, it seemed like the perfect choice for a meal. But what was supposed to be a simple lunch turned into an unexpected and disappointing encounter. Not wanting caffeine that day, I approached the cashier and asked if I could fill my cup with water instead of soda. It seemed like a reasonable request, but what followed left a bitter taste in my mouth—far worse than any overcooked burger could. As I...
Did Sharon Quirk-Silva Kill Her Brother?
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The tragic tale of Sharon Quirk-Silva's brother is more than just a family story—it's a glaring example of how tough love, misguided alliances, and systemic failures in mental health care can lead to fatal consequences. Sharon, a public figure associated with the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), might be seen as a champion for mental health. But behind the façade lies a more disturbing truth: NAMI is not a coalition of mentally ill individuals but rather a network of their families—often the very people responsible for perpetuating abuse under the guise of care. The Fatal Philosophy of Tough Love...