A few months ago, I made a malicious and completely unfounded blog post about Paul Dunlap—property manager, art collector, and someone who once did a great deal to support me. In that post, I falsely accused him of racism in connection with my family’s apartment business. While it’s true the family has a history of discriminatory practices, those actions happened 40 to 50 years ago—long before Paul ever became involved. Those decisions were neither his responsibility nor under his control.
The truth is, Paul Dunlap is a good man. He has always been kind, considerate, and fair to me. In fact, he once arranged a lucrative art show for me, bought several of my original works, and showcased my art in his private collection. Sadly, those paintings were stolen before I could deliver them. I was never able to pay him back, but Paul took the loss anywhay.
In another facebook post, I also accused Paul and his business of poisoning people—a completely false and defamatory claim tied to a lawsuit he was involved in. These were lies, and deeply unfair to Paul and his family.
I’ve had a long-standing struggle with social media, especially when my mental illness clouds my judgment. That doesn’t excuse my behavior—but it is something I’m actively working on with a professional therapist. I’m trying to learn how to be more responsible online, particularly because I rely on social media to promote my own art, books, and music.
I also attacked the family business for discrimination against my bipolar schizo-affective illness, and once again, Paul had no say in that matter. Still, I truly believe that if it had been up to him, he would have treated me fairly—as he always has.
Through my years in 12-step groups, I’ve learned the importance of making amends and taking responsibility for harm done. This apology isn’t just a formality—it’s essential. I fully accept whatever response Paul chooses to give. If you know Paul and were upset by my previous posts, please consider this a sincere and public correction.
One of the most painful kinds of wrongdoing is when you know you’re wrong and still do it anyway. I carry that shame—but I also carry hope. Paul knows me. He knows my struggles. And I believe he might respond with the same fairness and decency he’s shown me in the past.
Mental illness is no excuse for bad behavior. I own what I did, and I’m deeply sorry.
In the meantime, I will continue creating art, books, and music for your enjoyment—and do my best to speak more carefully, and more truthfully, moving forward.
Sincerely,
Dan and Bonkers
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