In a world where right and wrong should be clear-cut, we now find ourselves grappling with a moral code twisted by the wrong kinds of influences. Among these, the rise of convicts in AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) has left an indelible mark on our societal ethics. What was once about healing and recovery has, in many instances, become a platform for distorted values—where the victim is often portrayed as the bad one, and the assailant walks away as part of the chosen few.
The Victim Blaming Culture
It’s a disturbing trend. In certain circles within AA, we see the narrative flipped: the victim of domestic violence, rape, or other heinous acts is often pressured to forgive, even apologize to their abuser. They say things like, "We’re all flawed, who are you to judge?" And suddenly, the burden is no longer on the assailant but on the victim to ‘make peace.’ It’s a bizarre and twisted reality where bullying and abuse are rebranded as part of someone’s 'spiritual journey.' It’s almost as if they believe that enduring trauma is a necessary rite of passage to prove oneself in recovery.
Bullying is Good for Our Psychology—Apparently
I’ve heard it said (in some AA rooms) that a little bullying is good for us. Yes, you read that right. Forcing someone to confront their faults, even at the expense of their dignity, is seen as tough love. But let’s be clear—bullying never helped anyone grow into a well-adjusted adult. It’s toxic. In AA, this approach often goes unchecked under the guise of “accountability.” But in reality, it can become a breeding ground for unhealthy power dynamics, where the more aggressive members of the group prey on the vulnerable, all in the name of ‘helping.’
Rape, Murder, Domestic Violence – Dramas, Not Tragedies?
This is where it gets darker. The severity of crimes like rape, murder, and domestic violence is often downplayed, with the true “tragedy” in their eyes being someone taking a sip of alcohol. I’m not diminishing the struggles of addiction, but let’s put things in perspective. No one’s life is destroyed because someone else had a beer. But countless lives are shattered every day by violent crimes. Still, some AA members prioritize sobriety over basic human decency, excusing horrific acts as mere mistakes made on the road to redemption. And this, unfortunately, is how some of our mainstream morals have been corrupted.
It’s OK to Say “God” and “F*” in the Same Sentence**
Another baffling outcome of this moral pollution is the casual juxtaposition of religious devotion with crude irreverence. It’s perfectly fine, in their eyes, to invoke God’s name while cursing in the same breath. This isn’t about freedom of speech—it’s about the hollowing out of meaning. When every other word is an expletive, and “God” is just thrown in for good measure, it shows a profound disrespect for both spirituality and basic communication. These once-sacred ideas become empty shells, used to elevate people with pasts they’re not fully reckoning with.
Criminal Records and Teardrop Tattoos Are Cool Now
Perhaps the most visible symptom of this moral shift is the glorification of criminality. Teardrop tattoos, once a symbol of deep regret (or worse), are now badges of honor. Criminal records? Street cred. It’s no longer about remorse or personal growth—it's about flaunting one’s past as if it’s a mark of distinction. How did we go from admiring people who improve themselves to celebrating those who are barely trying? This, too, is part of the distortion of mainstream morality.
People Can Be Smart Without College (But Let’s Be Real)
Now, here’s the kicker. Yes, it’s true that intelligence is not confined to academia, and many brilliant minds never set foot on a university campus. But let's not kid ourselves—many of those in AA who loudly claim to be “smart without college” don’t exactly demonstrate that brilliance. The defiant anti-intellectualism is often a cover for a lack of critical thinking. It’s one thing to reject the system; it’s another to reject knowledge altogether. And when this mindset seeps into the mainstream, we see the erosion of respect for expertise, education, and truth.
Conclusion: The Moral Distortion Continues
In conclusion, the influence of convicts in AA has, in many cases, reshaped our moral landscape—and not for the better. The victim-blaming, the glorification of crime, the casual disrespect for sacred ideas, and the erosion of intellect are all symptoms of this shift. These ideas have polluted our mainstream morals, and it's time we take notice before the line between right and wrong becomes even more blurred. Recovery should be about redemption, growth, and healing—not about excusing harm and glorifying the worst parts of ourselves.
by Dan and Bonkers
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