When I first arrived at this facility, I was angry. I had a rough encounter with the person who would become my caseworker. "I don’t want tough love or your therapy," I told her, shutting her down from the start. Things didn’t get better when another patient wanted to fight me, and I felt the caseworker didn’t handle it well.
Still, she has been helping me with housing, and I’ve rejected every offer she’s made, even though she was only trying to help. In my mind, I wasn't ready to trust her. But something changed in group therapy recently, where I learned that setting boundaries isn’t just about saying "no" to toxic people and environments. It’s also about knowing when to say "yes" to people who are offering legitimate help.
My housing options aren’t ideal, but I’ve come to realize they come with opportunities—like saving money toward my goals. Each option gives me a chance to set aside funds for what I truly want: attending both Comic-Con conventions in 2025 and showcasing my books. Reaching that goal means the world to me, and I know my following will be proud when they see me succeeding, books in hand, at the conventions.
So today, I’m embracing a new kind of boundary. I’m saying "yes" to my caseworker, to her offers, and to the help I deserve. I am worthy of the support, and accepting it is part of my growth. With her help, I’ll save what I need and achieve my dream.
by Dan and Bonkers
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