In the world of art, finding a patron can make all the difference. I wasn’t looking for a grand gesture or a big investment—just someone who believes in the arts and could invest a little time and money. Someone who sees value in creativity and the impact it has on the world. What I did instead, though, was bombard you when my life fell apart. And for that, I’m sorry. It wasn’t your responsibility, and I shouldn’t have put that pressure on you.
Looking back, I realize I was wrong to make those demands. My life was in chaos, and I ended up leaning on you in ways that crossed the line. I owe you an apology for that. But through everything, I still believe that we’ve built a meaningful friendship. One that, if we approach it with respect and clarity, can move forward in a positive direction.
When you return from your vacation, I’d love to sit down and talk about some reasonable ways you can support the arts. I’m not asking for much—just a small gesture of belief in creativity and the importance of nurturing it. Whether it’s helping cover expenses for a project or just sharing your insights, there are ways you can be a part of this without feeling burdened.
On my end, I’m trying to quit smoking, though I’ll admit the odds feel stacked against me. It’s a battle I’m taking on day by day, and every little bit of progress counts. And yes, I can still vote for Kamala Harris once I find the polling place, but I know now that my personal struggles shouldn’t have been placed on your shoulders. You didn’t deserve that.
Let’s talk when you’re back and see if there’s a way we can continue our friendship, with clearer boundaries and mutual respect. For now, enjoy your vacation, and know that I’m reflecting on all of this with a better understanding of how to move forward.
All the best,
DAN JOYCE
by Dan and Bonkers
